Unconditional love is simply that -- love without conditions. On a higher consciousness level, there are no requirements or obligations to obtain unconditional love; it is deserved simply because you exist.
Seeking to earn lovability points, you may have constructed your entire life trying to prove you are good. You might have an itemized list identifying your good attributes and a flip side specifying just as many negative traits.
One characteristic that falls in the 'bad' category is selfishness. In the battle to prove you are worthy of love, appearing selfish must be avoided at all costs. You may sacrifice taking care of yourself by people pleasing and striving for perfection in all your roles.
Here is the cosmic joke: The biggest act of selfishness is trying to prove you are not selfish.
Whatever you are trying to prove about yourself is covering up what you subconsciously believe you are.
One of my students was diagnosed with a severe illness. He had spent his life catering to other people’s needs and his health had suffered. By the end of each day, he would pass out on the couch in front of television, too exhausted for any self-care.
When we explored this, he discovered subconscious sources for his obsessive need to please. His deep-seated fear of being perceived as selfish was hidden.
He confessed that he did not really think about others at all; his only concern was maintaining a fake caring persona which is the true definition of selfishness.
By understanding this, he felt freed to stop pretending to care and he could shift into authentic self-care. Now, he can choose to help others from real caring.
This inner work locates sources saying you don’t deserve to be loved unconditionally. Healing those places allows self-forgiveness, resulting in self-acceptance. This is unconditional self-love.
Inner reconnection is a re-introduction to your spirit so you can rediscover who you really are and why you are here. You can feel deserving of love simply by existing.
Then, what gets reflected, and deserved, is unconditional love.
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